For a while, I was writing about my wife and me at http://live-essays.blogspot.com. These essays are now a column in The Good Men Project.

You can read the first essay as a chapbook here as part of the This PDF Chapbook series (Publishing Genius Press). Or print a copy.

The Good Men Project is men telling their stories in their language. It’s men sharing and searching for their good. And it’s an unfolding and limitless conversation about what good means, what the good man can be. Support GMP.
 

My contributions to The Good Men Project:

Features

Ouch

The Sensitive Dude’s Guide to Sports

The End of Gender: What Can We Do As New Parents?

A Good Man from the Past: Betrayer or Betrayed?

Pepper Spray and Police Violence: What Do We Explain Freedom to Our Children?

It’s Linsanity

Love Recorded Column

Bobbing for Kimchi

Boise, Cathreen, and a Circuit Board of Dreams

A Period of Lassitude

Boise the Hunter

History Lesson

Houses We Can’t Afford

For Husbands to Please Their Wives

The World Is as Insane as Ever

Five Trips to the Bunghole and I am the Shit

The Fall of the Year

It’s Nice to See Your Family Waiting at the Door

X-Ray on Fire

I’m Pregnant

Get the Poop

The Numbers of Hummingbirds

Early Risk Assessment

Bear Our Angry Faces

All Around the Womb

The Fragile Vessel

Turning the Corner

How Rare and Momentous

The Missing Itch of Dreams

Getting Ready

Yes, Honey

Full Term

What to Do When the Baby Stops Moving

One Father’s Birth Story

10 Things Every New Father Should Know

What I Have Learned About Babies

A Story Without a Baby, a Near Drowning

What It Means to Be Baptized

Strange Love or: How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Respect the Baby

Early Childhood Education

Best of 2011: My Daughter

25 Ways of Thinking About the Holidays

Don’t Tell Me We Make Our Own Luck

What Korea Means to Me

Beauty for Babies

How (Not) to Sleep Train Your Baby

Say Bye-Bye to Daddy

Once Upon a Time

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Other nonfiction has been published in The Rumpus, KoreamDewclaw, Make Magazine, and The Lifted Brow, and is forthcoming in the Thymos Anthology of Asian American Writing.